Last night on my radio show Power of unfolding your spiritual Gifts - Getting out of your own way, as I listened with compassion to the courageous callers as they spoke with psychic medium Hans Christian King, I realized we are all searching for answers and need validation from others, as we do not trust ourselves. We always believe the answers are out there some where, we do not trust the information that we are receiving through our intuition, our gut feelings, our dreams, visions, hunches, impulses, our own psychic abilities and spiritual gifts. We get in our own way with our beliefs, trying to force an outcome, not trusting ourselves, doubts, fears
Grief cannot be explained to anyone who has not lost someone close to them. Until that happens, in that single moment you can truly empathize and feel the depth of the pain and compassion for all those who have lost someone dear to them. It feels like someone took a spoon and scooped out your heart, there is an emptiness that feels like it will never be filled. Sometimes we need help and support during the grieving process. Everyone grieves differently, and a reading from Hans can take years off of therapy. Sometimes all someone needs is just one message, an assurance that there loved one is at peace, and the validation that they are receiving messages and not going crazy. Learning to trust themselves.
What is our deepest fear? - not just the fear of death, that death is so final, but of death as obliteration, death with nothing beyond it. We fear our loved ones are lost to us forever when they die. We also fear that we will vanish when our time comes.
What survives death?.………..
What survives everything - even death - is LOVE.
Love is the highest energy force in the universe. When we die, the thing that connects us all, the way we communicate and the bridge that keeps us connected forever is the energy of love.
When our loved ones pass, we cannot believe it is all over in one moment and in one breath, the soul knows more than our minds tell us. Deep down we know our essence, our spirit does not die. It is energy and it transforms. We look for a sign, a message something to let us know that our loved ones are not lost to us.
I believe some of us are looking so hard we cannot see the forest for the trees. We may be expecting the signs to come to us like some miracle , something so extraordinary that there will be no doubt. It is not going to be like Moses and the parting of the Red Sea. I have learned through my experiences that they are subtle, and there is an inner knowing that you have made a connection. You know beyond a doubt and no matter what anyone tells you in your being you know the truth. It is only when we look at the ordinary, we will begin to see the extraordinary.
I had the opportunity and courage to accept that my mother was ill and was going to pass, and I distinctly remember asking God “What am I here to learn?” I sat with a bag of runes my mother had given me as a birthday present and I asked God to “Show me the lesson my mother’s illness is here to teach me?“ When I reached into the bag an pulled my rune, the rune I had chosen was acceptance. That was a tough one but a sense of peace, calm and clarity came over me and from that moment forward I dealt with her illness from that perspective. I was able to open up and have conversations I would never have had, if I had chosen to pretend it was not so and live in denial. I was able to have conversations with my mother about how we would communicate once she crossed over to the other side. I was no longer afraid to talk about her dying.
We would laugh and make jokes about how we would connect, but knew there was a promise within each of our conversations. I read to her from the book “Talking to Heaven” by James Van Praagh. In the book he said spirits are able to use their energy to communicate by flickering lights, radios, and now with computers.
I told my mother as soon as you get over you get your email account organized - motherofmine@heaven.com. She also gave each of her children a hummingbird feeder and told us that whenever we thought of her or needed her just look for the hummingbirds and know that she was with us.
After she died the emails started to come. How it worked was that she would visit me in my dreams. I could touch her, hold her and know that she was visiting me, we would chat and have conversations, then she would leave me and remind me to check my email and would be specific in telling me who the email was from. She would repeat “check your email. “ As I woke, I would go directly to the email and receive an email from the person she had named. They would write me about what my mother was telling me in the dream or send me a picture of the place where my mother and I were in my dream. Coincidence, you may think, I know differently, there was a sense of love and warmth that would envelop me as I read these emails. I could feel her touch my soul.
You may be standing in a room and feel compelled to go to a book shelf and you just reach out and pick up the book and read whatever page it falls on and feel totally surrounded with love while the book is speaking to you. Tears start streaming down your face and as you close the book you read the title…….
” There’s no place like far away” and you know in your heart and soul beyond a doubt that they are there with you communicating a thought. These I call tears of joy because I know I have just be visited.
Each person who spoke last night had received a message, yet did not trust it, and wanted validation that it was true. Trust your heart your inner knowing. I have learned from experience the more you acknowledge these little moments, you open the flood gates and more will come. Stop thinking it is your mind playing tricks on you, because that is exactly how your mind tricks you and blocks you from trusting your intuition, and the messages you are receiving. Remember that is your conduit and connection to your higher self, your soul, your spirit, your loved ones, to your source, your angels and your God.
Hans said the one thing he wanted everyone to walk away with was “You are not alone, you are always supported and loved.” You will see how connected you really are. Remember Love is the connection. Look for the miracles in the ordinary and that is what makes them extraordinary. Be patient, and Loving with yourself.
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